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Have You Ever Felt This Way? [Jan. 23rd, 2005|06:59 am]


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So I'm really interested in this girl.  I won't tell you who it is, but she's in the Science Division.  We've been seeing each other for awhile now...but lately she doesn't seem as excited to see me.  We used to see each other a certain night every week.  Then something "came up" on our night.  I was surprised, but tried to be understanding.  We rescheduled for another night, and things went ok.  Then...the next week she had something else to do again.

Now I started to worry.  Had I done something, said something?

Again, she apologized and told me she could see me any other night but that one.  So we rescheduled.  Then, the day I am supposed to see her she sends me a message saying she can't come until later--and she has to leave me earlier than I expected.

I'm afraid things didn't go so well that night.

So--has anyone ever acted this way with you?  What did it mean?  Should I ask her if she's interested in someone else?  God, maybe she's just bored with me.

Should I just not say anything the next time this happens--and take a chance she's just trying to fade out of my life and let me down easy?  Maybe she wants me to say something.

I don't know what to do.

What would you do?




From: cmdr_tucker
2005-02-10 07:35 pm (UTC)
Women. I don't think I'll ever figure 'em out.

She isn't Vulcan by any chance? If you think Human woman are tough to figure out, ha!

::scratches head... re-reads Pavel's post:::

Well, I can't rightly say I know what's going on, it might just be that she likes you, but not romantically. It certainly sounds like she's giving mixed signals.

The only advice I can give you is to put the ball in her court. Ask her out again, and if she makes excuses, just tell her to give you a call when she's free. Sometimes you gotta let them make the moves.

Good luck.

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[User Picture]From: pavel_chekov
2005-02-11 09:27 pm (UTC)


:: narrows eyes:: How did you know she was Vulcan? Well, half-Vulcan...

I was thinking the same thing you are saying, actually. Hey...maybe we should have a drink sometime and...forget the girls for the evening? Do you play poker?
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